Monday, May 28, 2012

love and attachment

Love and Attachment..
Will i get attached when i love someone?
This Im really sure a hot topic for lovers especially guys.
Guys, Men are not really happy with the word attachment. Am i right? Well, I know quite few men who has girlfriends and not married even at the age of 45, even 48, and 50.
There is nothing wrong with them, handsome, sweet looking , sweet talker too, stable, making more than enough money, but they are just so sensitive to be attached with somebody.
Some take mother as a reason, "I need to take care of my mom"

Well, Its interesting to observe this.
What about married man and love and attachment. You love someone, you expect not to be attached and you get married for love and sympathy and you still expect your wife not to be attached to you...
Will this creates conflicts or even confusion in marriage?

The topic now is Love Vs Attachment.

How do compare love and attachment?

How do you love someone and not attached to that person? can you or can you not do it?

-tbc-

love,
daiSy

Sunday, May 20, 2012

what about taking life less seriously?

Hello, Dear Journal! :)
Its late night and Im peacefully started to write and update on my journey of life.
Im currently in Cameron Highlands for my family gathering, TLC Astro channel is accompanying me at this hour when others are snoozing noisily after a great fruitful 2days here!
We visited BOH Tea plantation and had tea together and few family photos! OhmaiGod, its been so long since we, the siblings took our family photos... We also visited Strawberry Farm before heading The Crown Imperial Apartment. The Strawberry Farm really made our day especially the kids where they had a great time plucking strawberries and having Strawberry Chocolate Ice Cream! We had like 3 bowls of it , one after another! shoot! Alhamdulillah, had a very good feeling!

Next thing is.. Id like to reminisce a lil bit bout my perspective on life.. About dreams, planning and results.
I love to plan, and as everybody, the execution part of the plan is always the toughest ones! Especially the very first step! Also, we all have dreams, some dare to dream big and otherwise! But I always believe in Dreaming Big is a process one can always develop!
One of my dream is to travel! I would say, Family, and Travelling is my big goal!
And one thing about setting goal, I always planned for travelling trip, and the furthest i could think of is New Zealand. Well, close friends would know this as NZ was supposed to be our honeymoon place! I did all the homework to self drive and all, but it didnt happen.
God has a greater plan for us.
I was set to meet with kak yus a year ago to explore Insurance Industry, I did and I put 100% faith in God to lead the way i should live my life.
When building the Prudential Business seriously, I managed to qualify HongKong Trip with 100% God wills, and it fell on our NZ Honeymoon trip. I went like... " Oh Nooooooo!!!" , " not again! We've been postponing our honeymoon for nearly thrice and end up paying so much extra for the air tix!
Being a great follower, I cancelled NZ and went to HK, worst thing, I went alone , not even with hubby. and of course people around were questioning and judging on this decision, and here i learn on KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU DO!!!!
u know what happened when we cancelled NZ??? Prudential announced on US San FRancisco TRIP in MAy 2012!!!

USA????????????? San Francisco???? they must be kidding! I then understand why things happened! Hubby and I never planned to visit USA, as we thought its ridiculous to spend that much for travelling! Eventho we would really love to leave our footprints everywhere in the world, but US was always be a place that we thought we never cud visit!
But, once the Creator of the sky and the earth says YES to one thing, it will always be!
So, here it is, we just had our USA TRIP MAY 2012! and yes, it was lovely and wonderful!
Will share some in the next post!

Take life less seriously, planning does not promise success, but just plan a little bit, go with it and be flexible to alter the plan as we learn life every single second!

I end this post with Syukur Alhamdulillah Ya Rabb, Ya Razaq Ya Rahman!

love,
daiSy 


Saturday, March 31, 2012

hello!

im still around alhamdulillah!

Monday, January 16, 2012

the biggest jihad

ALHAMdULILLAH, IT WAS A GREAT DAY! STARTED MY HEALTHPOINTE TODAY AND ALLAH PERMITTED SOMEONE TO SHARE HER PROSPER WITH ME , HENCE CLOSED 2 CASES. FELT A BIT TIRED TODAY AND FEW HOPELESS THOUGHTS GONE THRU MY MIND... BUT, YA , WHY CARE, WE CAN ALWAYS PRAY AND PRAY FOR CALM AND SERENE FROM HIM. AGAIN PRAY TO GET WHAT WE DESIRE FROM HIM IS MUCH BETTER THAN TALKING TO OTHERS EXPRESSING WHAT WE FEEL AND WANTING TO KNOW THEIROPINIONS... OWH GOD, GRANT ME SERENITY AND CALMNESS IN MY DAYS AND NIGHTS. ALLAH, ALSO PLEASE PROTECT US, OUR FAMILY, OUR FRIENDS AND RELATIVES. AMIN. 

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

when this moment of the night comes...

everynight... when we the moment we switched off the light... of course im not gonna talk about the making love part... i just love this moment...
a moment when i lie down on our bed in our bedroom overlooking the dark night sky with full of stars and moon shining brightly... this is the best moment of the day after waking up in the morning before subuh... but this moment is my favorite moment in my day... evryday...

Lying down beside the person i love, the person I cherish my love with, the man i talk about everything, the person i hug without having to put on reasons, the person makes my day perfect with full of imperfections...

this part of my day is called GRATITUDE... Being grateful of my life no matter how bad my day was, but this part of my day is something i look forward to everyday everysingle moment...
Its a moment where i open up my journal and write the things i talk only to my self...
Its a moment when i take the deepest breath to say Thank you lord for the day, for the love, for the opportunities and for the rezeki.... Everything...
Its a moment when i hug my husband and with full of love and i just love the sense of it...
its a moment when i smile to the stars and the moon and its only between me and the sky... only us know the secret of our conversation...
its a moment when i look at my vision board in front of me on the wall and told myself its gonna happen soon...
Its a moment of full of hope of a better tomorrow
its the perfect moment to feel that its a perfect life...
Im content.

Thank You Lord and I love you Lord,
Nite!

love,
daiSy